You don't get to see life changing moments very often but...
Getting over your ex is
not so easy especially for an extremely emotional guy like me.
As mentioned in my
earlier posts. I had this girl in my life. We dated for more than two and a
half years.
Things were going
smooth.
But as we say too much
happiness brings a lot of sorrow, my family didn’t approve of her sounder
extreme pressure I had to break up with her.
At this point I know I
look like the douche bag here.
But I thought that we
would be really god friends as we had a really good understanding between us.
Now eight months have
passed and it is finally her birthday.
She invites one of my
closest friends but not me. I understand she must have done it to avoid the
awkwardness.
However I wish her
“happy birthday”.
And the reply I get is a
“ty”.
Not even a complete
“thank you”, just a tiny little “ty”.
Here is the thing. When
we were dating she had told me once “people I don’t care about or are just
acquaintance, I reply them in the shortest way possible”.
So all I did was ask her
“Don’t you have even slightest soft corner in your heart for me?"
And I get this huge
message with all the hidden grudges and a lot more of attitude.
All these months I was
under the impression that we are friends and don’t have no grudges about each
other.
I was very calm and was
trying to find a slightest bit of compassion left for me inside her.
Our conversation went on
for hours. It reached to a point where she almost said it.
Those three golden word
that no one wants to go through “I hate you”
And I was still
wondering what did I do so ugly to take this from her.
And when she finally
said “I don’t care, you don’t even exist in my life anymore”, that was it.
I was devastated at this
point.
A girl who once said she
won’t quit supporting me what so ever happens doesn’t have a slightest amount
of love left for me?
It was a turning point
in my life.
Finally understood and
learnt my lesson .
Never ever expect much
from anyone.
I felt like I finally
got some closure.
I never had no hatred in
my heart for her and will never have, I just can’t. But for sure this
conversation has helped me to move on in life and start a new life .
#StartANewLife
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